Establish Social Distancing Boundaries with Friends Before You Gather

From Martha Stewart
August 6, 2020

 

Nail down a few ground rules ahead of time to ensure everyone is comfortable.

Clarifying your stance on social distancing has become an increasingly common—and potentially uncomfortable—conversation, especially as small gatherings resume across the country. Here, Daniel Post Senning, the great-great grandson of Emily Post and a modern etiquette expert, offers a few straightforward guidelines for keeping yourself safe and your friendships intact during this uncertain time.

 

Set your boundaries.

Good etiquette always means being clear about what you can and can’t do, says Post Senning, and that’s true whether you’re responding no to a birthday invitation or gently letting a dinner party host know in advance that you’re allergic to nuts. “In the world of etiquette, there’s something really generous about letting people know what your boundaries are,” he says. And whether you’re discussing your switch to a vegan diet, your son’s need to leave his soccer game early, or your preference for socializing while wearing a mask, you shouldn’t put off having that conversation. “The more work you can do ahead of time, the better,” says Post Senning. “You want to make your expectations explicit in a time when we don’t have the structure of our social expectations to lean on. We are navigating new information, and not everybody is making the same choices. The more you can communicate, the better. The earlier those conversations happen, the better. The more open and candid they are, the better.”

 

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